Baby Boomers and the Midlife Transition - Staying on the Mat

I don't know about you, but one of the things the& it seems that the better they get - the
Midlife transition has taught me is the importancemore they love performing - the basics - over
of practice. Let me tell you a story.and over.
To this day, I can still hear my mother calling meI remember telling dear Mr. Lerner, my piano
in from playing with my friends to practice theteacher, when he asked me to practice scales,
piano. Like me, you may have many things in life"but we've done that already." I never did master
to which you are still answering,the piano - because I didn't then understand how
"But mom, do I have to?"to have the mind and heart of a beginner.
The problem that many of us have is that weGeorge Leonard, a renowned Aikido Master and
view practice as a VERB. we're doing it as aauthor of a wonderful book entitled MASTERY
means to an end - to learn a skill, to get ahead,has said, The essence of BOREDOM is to be
to achieve a goal or to make money.found in the obsessive search for novelty.
We are seeing it as something that is separate(repeat) True satisfaction lies in repetition. " -
from the rest of our lives.Staying on the Mat
We need to "get" that PRACTICE is a NOUN..I stopped at the scales. I finally learned that a
From my practice of Yoga, I have come tosymphony gets its richness from the subtle
understand the importance of what the Mastersvariations on familiar themes. True satisfaction
call Staying on the Mat. The path of MASTERYdoes lie in repetition. As a reminder, I used to
honors the journey and focuses on the practicepractice Yoga in front of the untuned piano in my
itself - not to gain something, but for its ownliving room.
sake. Practice, in this sense becomes an integralHow many of us are dabblers who begin a new
part of our lives, not a means to an end, but asjob, or a sport, or diet or relationship - and when
an end in and of itself.we are no longer seeing quick successes, get
Winners don't devote themselves to a skill to getbored and quit?
better -Unlike my "do I HAVE to", they LOVE toThose on the mat - the path of mastery actually
practice - and because of this - they do gettake delight in the plateaus. (I'm still working on
better..this one!